Good luck at the Miss Ghana USA pageant

E59A4026cfbAs another pageant weekend approaches, it’s time for me to wish my best friend, Akua (Idia) Tokunboh, good luck at the Miss Ghana USA pageant.

We’ve been friends since freshman year at WSU!  She’s currently a pharmacist and graduated from the KU School of Pharmacy last year. I am so proud of her accomplishments!

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I call her my African sister and think of her as an African queen.  It’s probably why it’s fitting that she’s competing in the pageant this weekend in New York City.  The winner of the Miss Ghana USA goes on to compete at Miss Africa USA. You can read her essay by clicking here.

Now, here’s an update of my wonderful Indian sister. If your recall, my last post was to wish Megha good luck as she represented the Asian Festival at the Miss Kansas’ Outstanding Teen pageant.

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Guess what?!? She won!!!

IMG_3409Last month, she was crowned Miss Kansas’ Outstanding Teen 2014 and she’ll represent Kansas at Miss America’s Outstanding Teen, July 29 to August 2 in Orlando. You can vote for her by going to this site, https://fourpointsmagazine.com/maoteen-americas-choice/item/1383-kansas.

I’m so excited that we both will compete in the state of Florida that same week but that also means that I won’t get to see her in Orlando. She has a great support system, including her lovely grandmas, so I’m sure they’ll cheer extra loud for me. Wishing my little sister, good luck at MAOT!  IMG_3390

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Good Luck to Miss Asian Festival 2013

 

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Since 1984, a cultural pageant winner has been chosen to represent the annual Wichita Asian Festival.  The purpose of the Miss Asian Festival Pageant is to give young women of Asian descent the opportunity to discover their heritage and celebrate their culture on the Asian Festival stage.

Last year, the judges chose a 16-year-old girl representing India to be the 30th Miss Asian Festival.  I still remember meeting this young lady for the first time. I thought to myself that this quiet and shy girl had this positive aura that makes you want to be her friend.

Since then, I’ve had the honor to mentor this young lady.

For months I’ve seen Megha Gangadhar step out of her comfort zone and grow as a leader.  As a pageant director, the most rewarding part is to see women grow as they prepare to compete.  As a fellow Asian-American and president of the Wichita Asian Association, the most rewarding part is seeing Megha embrace her Indian culture and seeing her grow as a leader in the Asian community.

As she competes in her first “real pageant,” I know our Asian community is proud and supports her in the journey for the title of Miss Kansas Outstanding Teen 2014.

Good luck to my friend and mentee!

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Global Sunday Fun Day

Here’s a recap of my Sunday Fun Day, which took me on a global tour.

My first stop was in Laos

Before lunch, I had the chance to meet our Miss Asian Festival 2012 (Miss Laos) to buy craft items for the Wichita River Festival Sundown Parade.  As we continued shopping, she told me that she was asked by Miss Vietnam to be a bridesmaid. It made me feel so proud to know that through pageantry, Miss Laos and Miss Vietnam were able to not only learn about their own culture but also learn about others’ cultures, and ultimately form lasting friendships.  For any young lady considering representing a country at Miss Asian Festival 2014, please click here to apply.

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Miss Asian Festival 2012 contestants

My second stop was in Vietnam

For lunch, we ate at My Tho, a Vietnamese noodle restaurant.  Wichita has a large population of Vietnamese-Americans so the Vietnamese food here is quite delicious. Having visited Vietnam, I must say eating pho (Vietnamese noodles), always brings back the memories of my trip to Ho Chi Minh City and Nha Trang (where Miss Universe 2008 was held).

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October 2008 in Nha Trang, Vietnam

My third stop was in Mexico

For dessert, we decided to go to the NoMar area of Wichita, which celebrates the Hispanic cultures in Wichita.  We visited one of my favorite fruit shops in town called Tropicana.  They serve mixed fruits with some syrup and some chili powder (and sooooo delicious)!  I was telling my brother that it reminded me of our childhood in Guatemala where we would spend Sundays eating local cuisines.

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Tropicana and My Tho

The fourth stop was in India

I had the pleasure to spend some time with our Miss Asian Festival 2013, who is going to represent the Asian community at the upcoming Miss Kansas Outstanding Teen competition in Pratt.  Her mother was gracious enough to make a custom-made lehenga from India and gifted it to me today. I tried it on and loved it!  can’t wait to show you all the beautiful outfit! It was there that I also got to snack on delicious samosas that her mom made.

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Idia (finalist for Miss Ghana USA 2014), Nina (Miss America 2013), Lily (Miss Kansas International 2014), and Megha (Miss Asian Festival 2013)

The final stop started in Japan and ended in Haiti

Our young professionals service group (Rotaract Club of Wichita) met and ate Hana Cafe, a Japanese restaurant in Old Town Wichita.  The main reason for our meeting was to start working on the Third Annual Pub Crawl to raise funds to provide clean drinking water for school children in Lambert, Haiti. Please mark your calendars for Saturday, November 22 to help with this fundraiser. Details on the event will be posted on the Facebook event page.

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Committee photo at the Second Annual Pub Crawl

Today, it became even more apparent that my community is diverse and global, right here in the heart of the U.S.A.

-Lily

Pageant Season 2014

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Miss Kansas United States 2014 pageant

Alright…this is a LONG overdue blog entry.

I’m switching this blog from “Lily’s Luncheons” to “Where’s Wu?”  I’d like to post some of the fun adventures that I get to participate in because of pageantry and television.

Since pageant season 2014 is already in full swing, I thought it’s only appropriate to come out of my hiatus with a quick entry on my adventure to Kansas City to watch a pageant.  I had the opportunity to attend the Miss Kansas United States pageant as a “former” with a few of my friends.  Women who have competed in pageants know that pageant season means that you can catch the “pageant bug.”  I’ll post more about that in a future entry . . .

During this adventure, I had the opportunity to catch up with friends I’ve had the honor of meeting throughout my pageant journey.  In the photo, you can see, from left to right, Miss Ruby Slippers 2009 (Susan Yang), Miss Kansas United States 2010 & Miss Kansas 2011 (Carissa Kelley), and Miss Oklahoma International 2009 (Cat Taylor).  We had the chance to see some great gals from Kansas compete for Ms., Miss, and Teen titles. I look forward to seeing the growth the winners and the contestants will have this year.  If you’ve competed in pageants, you know that pageants can help a woman grow mentally, emotionally, and intellectually.

Here’s to a great pageant season 2014!

Until next time,

Lily

Pre and During Lenten Friday

Okay, these two restaurants I’m writing about have no connection other than I ate at these two places during this first week of Lent.  I’m always up for going to a new mom-and-pop restaurant and it was no different this week.

Phojo Greg and I were already downtown for an interview, so, we decided to check out a restaurant that replaced the Quiznos at the corner of Murdock and Waco.  We visited “El Piminiento” for the first time and I’m sure it won’t be the last.  I had two tamales, rice, and beans for about six dollars.  The portion was more than generous and the taste of these tamales was just perfect.  I’m a huge fan of tamales and these did not disappoint.  I chatted a bit with the owner, Havier, and he told me that all of his food is authentic Mexican food and that he’s enjoying being an entrepreneur in Wichita.  I highly recommend this place for Mexican food but you’ll have to find out their times.

El Pimiento

738 N. Waco

316-440-5122

After working all day and then volunteering on Friday evening, I must have been a bit tired because I got us lost!  Since it was Lenten Friday, I knew I could eat seafood.  Having heard about the Wichita Fish Company by a friend, I suggested that restaurant.  Unfortunately, they close by 8 p.m. and we don’t get out of the Lord’s Diner ’til 7:35 p.m.  We called them and they suggested we go to Haysville Fish Company which doesn’t close ’til 9 p.m. on Friday.  I thought I knew where I was going but apparently I did not.  I got us lost for a good 10-15 minutes but we got back on track to arrive at the Haysville Fish Co. by 8:15 p.m.

Since, it was Lenten Friday, we knew we’d have to wait for our food.  And, it was well worth the wait!  While we waited for our food, I chatted with the owner, Larry.  He told me the Haysville restaurant had been open for a little over year and that it gets very busy on Lenten Fridays.

I ordered the crab cake dinner and it was delicious!  Only problem was that it was too much food for me to finish.  Bright side, I had some leftovers so I could have it again.  I tried some of my brother’s Haddock strips and they were perfectly seasoned.  I recommend what I ordered but would order one additional smaller item with the crab cake dinner and share it.

Haysville Fish Company

7301 S. Broadway, Haysville

316-260-3400

Tues-Sat 11 a.m.-8p.m.

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ANONYMITY

This is my first post on this new blog and I’m quite elated to start this. I’m going to use this blog to let you follow along the ride of being an on-camera television news reporter in Kansas.

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Before I left work today, I had a viewer call the station to voice their concern. This person made an effort to be heard. She/He watched the newscast and right after my package aired, found our station number, called, and gave their two cents. Apparently, I can’t speak English “good.” This is not the first time nor will it be the last time that disgruntled viewers will call or email. Other viewers have called to say, “I just don’t like that Chinese-looking girl. You need to take her off the news.” Thankfully, that individual did correctly identify my ethnicity and not my nationality, but I’m not leaving the television world.

To be in this industry, you must have THICK SKIN.

I’ve always heard the phrase, “Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me.” Frankly, WORDS DO HURT. Those who choose to be a part of the media world, eventually learn to live out that phrase. But for someone who just started their lifelong dream career, it does sting.

I’m a 100% American woman with a Chinese-Guatemalan background. I started my television career five months ago after obtaining a Master’s in Journalism at the University of Hong Kong. I’ve traveled extensively throughout the world and consider myself an open-minded person. I’m proud to have grown up in this state since the age of 8 and consider myself a Kansan.

I choose to work in Kansas. I choose to be in this profession. But I don’t choose to be bullied.

I will take constructive criticism any day and welcome it from viewers. People who feel I’m inadequate because of my race – come tell it to my face. But I doubt that scenario would happen. We live in a world where we can hide behind anonymous phone calls, fake user names and email accounts, and aliases. We are able to say hurtful, mean, and untruthful comments because there’s no recourse to our actions. This in turn has resulted in our loss of manners and common courtesy (just think of what our mothers or grandmothers would say about our actions).

I’m proud of the work I broadcast on-air and may make a mistake or two. But I do not hide in anonymity and take ownership of my words and actions. So, I welcome you to dialogue with me if you have constructive feedback. Otherwise, I’ll take your comment on the phone or internet as a reminder – to remain kind like my mother taught me and that, “Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will only sting a little.

Until next time,
Lily